alright get some wooden tongs (make sure if you use pliers, they are insulated otherwise do not use them!) and take out the spark plug and the HT lead (thats the cable that you stick onto the spark plug!). now that you've got the spark plug out, connect the HT lead back onto the spark plug and insert and old spark plug plug in it's place (this is to stop fuel being pushed out and creating a nice explosion in your engine bay!) grip the spark plug with the wooden tongs just a few millimetres above the cylinder head and get a friend / helper to start the engine. take note of how the spark looked (was it intense electric blue, or was it a weak dull blue), keep a rough memory of how frequent it was sparking (for example you'll be able to tell the difference between a spark plug going at 2,000 rpm and 4,000 rpm). repeat this for the spark plug directly next to it, swap the spark plugs around and if the wet spark plug visually works a lot better in the other HT lead then it's the HT lead.
personally i'd use proper spark plug testers and a stroboscope to test wether or not the HT lead was receiving voltage (it will flash every time the spark plug makes a spark) but i only recommended the old school method for testing spark and how to distinguish between a faulty ht lead / coil and spark plug as i'm sure you won't own a stroboscope or spark plug testing machine